Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Met an icon tonight!

Earlier in the week, I received an invitation from my friend Tyler to attend a cocktail reception with burlesque icon Dita Von Teese. I have been a fan of hers for years and I jumped at the opportunity to attend.

Dita was stunning - I hate that I'm going to miss her show tomorrow night at the House of Blues. I'll have to catch her next time!

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

When is Football Wives coming back?!?

If I had a nickel for every time I'm asked this question, I'd have a new pair of Louboutins sitting in my closet! It's a question that I'm asked frequently and it always pains me to say - "I don't think it is..."

This time last year, we were in full-on production mode for season 1 of the show. It was an exciting time and everyone was full of anticipation! One of the weekly entertainment magazines gave us 3 out of 4 stars - if I remember correctly, the previous season of Basketball Wives got half a star. We were going to do this! We spent four awesome (and sometimes grueling and emotional) months doing our best to tell our reality about what life is REALLY like for a football wife. Unfortunately, things didn't necessarily pan out as expected.

We (as a cast) realized a few weeks before the show premiered that something wasn't quite right. The network wasn't advertising the show. How was anyone going to watch if they didn't know we were coming on? I still see tweets every once in a while - people asking "there was a Football Wives?" Yep - it was such a short run that if you blinked, you might've missed it. Contrast that to several other Dallas-based reality shows on other networds right now - I hear and see them advertised all the time.

I remember driving to work one morning sitting in traffic on the tollway when I heard a commercial for Bret Michael's reality show on one of the biggest morning radio shows in the DFW area. It was airing on the same network that Football Wives was set to premiere. I thought - "Wait a minute - this is Dallas! The show happened here! We can't even get a commercial on local radio????" In short - NOPE! Most of the cast worked hard trying to promote the show on our own - we were setting up magazine and radio interviews, granting blogger interview requests - you name it, and incurring out-of-pocket costs to do so. We even set up our own red carpet premiere party only to have the network tell us we couldn't call it the "official" party.

We did our best, but in hindsight it's clear that the show wasn't going to be a success without the support of the network. It was as if we were being set up to fail.

The week before our premiere the network put the entire episode online. The day we premiered, the show came on earlier in the day so it didn't ACTUALLY premiere during our time slot. Why is this important??? Because ratings are EVERYTHING!!!! If a show gets poor ratings, then advertisers won't pay for ad space during the episode and the network doesn't make money. After not being promoted and having the first episode available before the actual "premiere," our ratings weren't as great as expected. Frankly, they were disappointing.

Then, a funny thing happened during our season one - our ratings started climbing after our slow start. Viewership steadily rose in the midst of some pretty big competition. Not only did we have to compete with Sunday night football every week since we aired during football season, but just about every big music awards came on during our time slot and we'd have to compete with those shows that had established national audiences - we're talking the Country Music Awards, the Bet Awards if I remember correctly. It seemed like there was ALWAYS something else on during our time slot. But our ratings kept rising. By the time our last episode aired, our viewership had risen to around 1.5 million viewers between the three showings of the episode on finale day. 1.5 million viewers. That's pretty good for a show that wasn't promoted. It's a lot more viewers than other VH1 shows had that have gotten renewed. We were pretty confident that there would be a season two.

I started having my doubts around Super Bowl - how could the biggest game in American football be played in our city, yet the cameras weren't rolling? I'd been told by the powers that be that IF we had another season, we wouldn't start shooting until around summertime. Summer? We did that during season one! Wouldn't it be nice to change things up a bit?

Anyway, Super Bowl Sunday rolled around - certainly the network would run a Football Wives marathon that day. They run everybody else's marathons, why not ours? Imagine my disappointment when I flipped to the network that day and they were running a Basketball Wives marathon - ON SUPER BOWL SUNDAY! I'm a smart chick - I think I knew back then we wouldn't be coming back when the network refused to do anything to promote the show. But I guess there is always hope...

We started hearing comparisons to Basketball Wives early on. Makes sense - we had the same executive producer, the same production company. It was a reality show about sports "wives." I can't blame people for making the comparisons. But the shows are different, for obvious reasons. Our cast is comprised of women who are actually WIVES! We had two castmembers who are not - just-the-girlfriend Brittany who is now expecting a baby boy with her Dallas Cowboys boyfriend David Buehler (you missed that - the pregnancy would've been featured on season 2 had there been one) and Mercedes Nelson (who dated a high profile now ex-Cowboy - if they had told her story right, she was incredibly relevant to the story we could've told). In contrast, most of the Basketball Wives are divorced or at some point had a relationship (or relationships - plural) with professional basketball players. Is it just me, or should being married be a requirement if you're on a show with "Wives" in the title???? And funny thing is - several of those ladies are dating football players. That's a bit ironic I think.

But here is one of the problems - we were actually married!!!! The women on our cast have husbands that we actually loved and care for, who have good reputations as being professionals and family men. Some of the guys are still active players, and if we had acted a complete fool on national t.v., it could've potentially affected our husbands' careers. Most of us are mothers, some of us with our own careers. Getting on t.v. and acting a complete fool was never, ever going to happen.

In contrast, Basketball Wives had it's highest ratings yet after last weekend's episode in which two of the castmembers got into a weave pullin', breast exposing fight that resulted in one of them being sued for assault. In the Football Wives episode where I threw the cookie at Pilar, I had the foresight to know that if I'd actually made contact with that cookie, there would've been police waiting for me at the dock. I played softball and I have great aim, and she wasn't sitting that far from me. I missed on purpose. I wasn't trying to catch a charge over that broad or the show - it just wasn't going to happen. But that (and the travesty that was the last episode) was all the fight drama the viewers were going to get.

People called our show boring, constantly comparing it to Basketball Wives. We didn't have to compete with each other - the only thing we really had in common was that "Wives" word in our show titles.

There are other notable differences between Football Wives and Basketball Wives. Basketball Wives was filming their second season while we were filming our first. It appeared to me that they had a bigger budget - more extravagant trips, etc. Their season would be ten, hour-long episodes. We had eight, twenty-two minute episodes to try to tell a story. Initially, we were going to get ten, twenty-two minute episodes but the network cancelled two shows due to low ratings early in the season. So with an abbreviated season, often times the story that was pieced together didn't make a lot of sense. Had the show been longer and the story told right, I think the show would've connected with more people.

And advertising. While our season was struggling, the Basketball Wives were being featured on the sides of buses and in commercials. I often wonder what we would've been able to accomplish had we be given the same consideration.

While watching season 2 of Basketball Wives, I noticed something else - the network wouldn't air some of the Basketball Wives episodes earlier in the day - that way, people would have to tune in to the show later in the evening. RATINGS. Or how about the night the Basketball Wives season finale was supposed to air at the same time as a big awards show. We didn't get our show moved around to avoid competition, but when the bball ladies had to go up against Oscars, you bet your ass they postponed the finale until the next week. RATINGS!

We didn't get a reunion. What reality show on VH1 doesn't get a reunion? That was the first red flag that we might be in trouble. Personally, my theory is the Football Wives reunion didn't happen for a couple of reasons. For one, I don't think Pilar would've been woman enough to show up. She would've been confronted hard. It was easy for her to talk smack during interviews when she, the producer and crew were the only ones in the room. Having seen the episodes and heard the derogatory things she was saying about the cast, she knew what was coming and I am certain she wouldn't have shown up for a reunion. She's the classy one remember? She won't engage... unless she's hiding behind twitter.

Secondly, had there been a reunion, you would've had the cast saying, "Okay, here's what really happened." See, producers want you to think that the story they tell is, in fact, reality. The reality is that everything you see on these shows had to happen, but it is edited and told according to what some genius has decided would make a good story. Having gone through the process of participating in reality t.v., when I watch shows like Basketball Wives and I'm gasping and holding my breath, I remind myself - Okay, what really happened??? That's what would've happened at a Football Wives reunion - our reality may have been exposed. We would've told the true story.

Shortly after our season wrapped, we got word that the Basketball Wives season 2 reunion was already being planned and coordinated. That was like a slap in the face. And it stung. We had put so much time and effort into the project that at the very least, I thought we deserved some closure.

I later heard a radio interview Shaunie O'Neal participated in. During the interview, she called our show "churchy" and certainly didn't sound supportive. She later denied she called us churchy but she did. I heard her say it. Just sayin', but I think there might be some sort of conflict of interest when the show's executive producer is not promoting the show and is in fact degrading it. But things are all good for Shaunie I guess since Basketball Wives is doing so well. She couldn't support the "competition." Crazy to think that she could have had two successful shows had we be given her support.

Football Wives is a good show. It's fun and endearing and entertaining. The guys are involved - it's interesting getting their perspective on things. I watch DVR'ed episodes every once in a while and it makes me wonder what dummy made the decision not to bring it back - it was a good show. I don't agree with a lot of the editing of Football Wives - actually, I think it was pretty whack. But it was a good show. We weren't fighting and cussin' all the time though. If that's all viewers want, they weren't getting it from this group of ladies.

During season 1, you saw a few snippets of what we did during that four months of shooting, but I promise you we didn't even scrape the surface of what it's like to be a football wife. You guys missed some good stuff too - there is probably enough tape to put together a reel of highlights that would be awesome. For example...

We got stuck on an elevator in New York - that was actually pretty scary, but funny as hell.

I think about the day I made a comment about Amanda's pussy (cat) being on my lap. The crew even started laughing and we had to stop taping for a couple of minutes to regroup.

I think about hanging out on the dock after the boat fight praying a slightly intoxicated Erin McBriar wouldn't fall into the water - she was the only one wearing a mic and they needed her to stand at attention to catch the post-Cookiegate discussions.

You missed the Football Wives out on the Hudson River in New York overlooking the sight of the World Trade Center and Chanita picking up the tour boat microphone to sing the Star Spangled Banner.

There are so many things you didn't get to see - good parts that would've made you laugh, made you cry. It is a shame you (and I) never got to see them.

So what did you miss that would've been season 2??? For starters, Super Bowl was in Dallas this year and it was a complete debacle because of the weather. Chanita flew into town ready to take the Big D by storm and she just had to be somewhere (vs. stuck inside in the cold). So we went to the mall - the only store open was Forever 21. So Ryan and George chilled while we scoured the empty mall before heading for a bite to eat at Cheesecake Factory. It was pretty entertaining.

And the real life football wives had a blast Super Bowl week - snow and all! That's us at the NFLPA's big bash.

We wrapped up the week with a Super Bowl party at Amanda's house - it was perfect!

As previously mentioned, David and Brittany are expecting a baby boy - and soon! We'll be holding a baby shower for her next month.

You missed Melani and I reconciling and laughing about a potential spoof with a castmember being portrayed by a tranny. Get 'em Quepha.

Deion is going to be inducted into the Pro-Football Hall of Fame. Um, kind of a big deal. Actually, you may not have seen that part because Pilar swears she wouldn't come back to the show and is doing her best to do distance herself from the show. Fine with me - bye!

And Mat McBriar made it to the Pro Bowl! We could've gone to Hawaii to support Erin and all stay in a house together for a week. You're telling me if they'd put us all under one roof for a week no drama would've popped of?!?!? I think there would've been plenty. It may not have been weave pulling or anything like that, but there was certain to be conflict, and because viewers like conflict, I'm thinking the ratings would've been pretty good.

Most importantly, we missed the opportunity as a show to be a part of history. The lockout was recently lifted and it was definitely material for season 2. The media is calling the lockout historical, and we could've been there to show the Football Wives version of it. But nope. No cameras anywhere.

And, there were no cameras rolling today either when castmate Amanda Davis found out her hubby Leonard was being cut by the Cowboys to free up cap space. The Davis family just drove back to town from Arizona last week - full of anticipation and ready to get back on the gridiron, only to realize and face the disappointment of the business side of football. If the story would've been told right, I promise it would've made for amazing t.v.

I shake my head thingking about the focus group the network reportedly put together after our show. Apparently focus group members who I'm assuming are from New York or Los Angeles said that Dallas was boring and that it didn't seem very interesting. Right... that's why there are no less than three reality shows based in Dallas on air right now. Boring my *ss!

So what now??? Well, we move on and continue our lives. The Neufelds are doing well - Ryan is officially retired and dealing with the post-retirement issues many players deal with. My husband is 35 and will most likely end up on disability. At 35! The kiddos are doing amazing and would've certainly provided some entertainment - Bryn's favorite word right now is "bubbies." She's become quite the character. And I continue to practice law - somehow viewers missed during season 1 that I do work! Hearing people tell me on Twitter to go get a job gets old.

So, we're still living life and appreciating the few opportunities Football Wives presented.

For those of you who watch Basketball Wives, you all know what NMFF means, right? Now that Evelyn Lozada is planning on marrying Chad Ochocinco, she's being hammered with questions about whether or not she would join Football Wives. She usually says something along the lines of "hell no" and says that Football Wives is a NMFF. Well, it can't be that much of a NMFF if she keeps having to address it. People are talking about it - it's relevant. People want the show back. And are we really a NMFF since we start airing this week down under in Mat McBriar's 'hood? HELLO AUSTRALIA! And do NMFFs end up on Centric TV, where season 1 of Football Wives will air in 2012? I think not. People watched the show, they want to know what happened to the show, and I think we should give them what they want. Fans, and my castmates, deserve something.

We did our best to fight to bring the show back but it's out of our hands. If you are interested in supporting the show and want to see another season, we have a Facebook page - "Bring Back Football Wives for a Season Two." Please feel free to like it. Harass VH1 - tell them to bring us back. You never know... it worked for T.O.!

*Disclaimer: I am not hating on Basketball Wives - I watch it every week and fully support a couple ladies on the show, even some of the more controversial ones. And I'm not bitter - I'm grateful for the opportunity to have been a part of this cast and experience. Just sharing my thoughts.

Meet Amanda!

Hey everyone - I want to introduce you to my buddy Amanda Nall! Amanda is one of my real life football wife friends. Her husband Craig played with Ryan in Buffalo - we had lots of time to bond during those cold winters! Well, Craig and Amanda live about 20 minutes from us here in Texas. They are great friends and we always do what we can to support each other - check out my first ever "Guest Blog" segment on the Gridiron Goddess!

Introducing Amanda Nall!

Hello to all of the family, friends and FANS of Dawn's! My name is Amanda Nall and Dawn and I decided to do a little switch-a-roo and make guest appearances on each other's blogs today! I've always wanted to be a "guest blogger"! It sounds so official! ;)

This is me. :) Hi!

Here's a quick rundown on me. I'm a 29 year old stay-at-home mom/preschool teacher. I have been married for 6 years to a sweet man who just so happened to have played in the NFL (quarterback) for 7 years. Which is how I met Dawn. Our hubbies played together in Buffalo. :) I have 2 little boys-Matthew, 3, and Mason, 1. They are my joy, my heart, my purpose for being.

The fam.

AND, I am also a 31 Gifts Senior Consultant. Which is why I am here today, highjacking Dawn's blog. We are actually doing a little switch-a-roo. She will be the guest blogger on MY blog today as well talking about her business and its AMAZING skin care line!! So go HERE to check that out and support your girl! Don't forget to "follow" my blog while you're there if you like what you see! :)

So, onto the purpose of this intrusion.

Like I said, I am a 31 Gifts Consultant. If you haven't heard of 31, it is a direct selling company that produces some really adorable, affordable tote bags, handbags, organizational products to help clear your clutter, backpacks, lunch totes, etc etc etc... Best of all, almost everything can be personalized for just $7! You can choose from many different fonts, monogram styles, thread colors. At the very least, yall go check out the online catalog. Flip through a few pages and see what ya think!

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For $99 you can become a consultant. And for that, you get over $300 in bags, totes, stationary and business materials (shown above) to get you well on your way! You also get your own website for free for the 3 months (you don't have to keep it after those 3 months if you don't want to but its only about $10 a month if you'd like to). Perks??? Well, lets see! How about a 25% commission on anything you sell starting immediately, a 25% consultant discount, and the fact that this stuff sells itself!?! When I first got my 25 catalogs that came with my enrollment kit in, I showed them to my neighbors, friends and family. And all of a sudden I had made my $99 back and then some. People WANTED to have parties to get free stuff as hostesses! And the parties around Christmas time were AMAZING because everyone wanted to do some shopping for all the women/girls on their lists!

For more info on becoming a consultant, go to my website and click on "Join My Team". Its that easy to get started! Personally, I joined to get that discount and the kit! And then people I knew wanted to know how they could order too. And pretty soon I was hooked and making actual MONEY! For awhile I thought all direct selling companies were scams b/c I had to invest a ton of money and then persuade my friends to PLEASE buy something!!! Not this stuff!! I love it!

I also have a 31 blog dedicated to all things 31. I update it with monthly specials, party reviews, ideas on how to use different bags and lots of pictures! The consultant and hostess info needs to be updated on it because we have moved to a new catalog but it is right for the most part! I will be tweaking it soon!

So that's it ladies...(and gentlemen??). Thank you so much for reading and letting me barge in on your girl's blog! If you have any questions, you can reach me on my blog or at amandanall31(at)gmail(dot)com. Thanks again! :)

Saturday, July 23, 2011

Bansela Site is Up!

I had the privilege of working on a modeling project recently with Nan Holloway and her company - Bansela. This was one of the best photoshoots I've ever been on! The models were all styled by my good friend Denise Merlick - Denisa and I worked on The Bite together for almost two years. Check out the site! The jewelry is gorgeous!

Thursday, July 14, 2011

I'm officially in my mid-30s!

Happy birthday to me, happy birthday to me! Can't believe I'm 35 years old. I wish I could say I'm not feeling it, but my knees hurt when I run and I've got bags under my eyes. Time is taking a toll! But I always say - another year is such a blessing - lots of folks I know didn't make it to their 35th birthdays. Perspective.

Speaking of perspective, when I finally get around to getting the tattoo I promised myself when I turned 35, it's going to say just that - perspective. Perspective has become my motto in recent years. It's amazing how keeping perspective can completely change your outlook on anything. For me, it helps me keep my stress and life in it's proper place - someone, somewhere is dealing with something way worse than me, so I'll deal. I'd like a permanent reminder that "perspective" is the word I use to help keep me sane these days.

Back to some fun stuff - after I got off of work yesterday, we met up with my friend Miesha and rode rollercoasters at Six Flags. Riding coasters is my favorite pastime - and even though it was over 100 degrees, I was ready to take on the park. Fortunately, it wasn't too crowded and the longest we had to wait to ride anything was about 15 minutes.

Miesha gave me the best birthday present ever - a ride on the Skydiver. It's half bungee jump, half sky dive. I've wanted to do this ever since I was a little kid running through the Six Flags in California. We got up in that harnass, did a little prayin' followed by a little cussin', but we made it. Good, good times. Couldn't have imagined a better way to spend my 35th birthday!

Buffalo Gals Reunite in Dallas

I couldn't have imagined a better way to spend the eve of my 35th birthday than to spend some time with my Buffalo-chicks-who-now-live-in-Texas crew Amanda and Blake. Britney Spears was in town performing at the AAC, and since we all went to the concert last time she was here, we just had to go again.

The concert was good, but not as great as her Circus tour. We had more fun people watching - the gays and teenagers wearing tight clothes and wearing 10 inch pumps they can't walk in were in full force! We were definitely entertained.

D210 Covers the 2011 Reebok Heroes Celebrity Baseball Game

On a super hot Texas summer afternoon, we braved the heat and skipped over to Dr. Pepper Ball Park to check out the Reebok Heroes Celebrity Baseball Game benefiting the Heroes Foundation and the Mike Modano Foundation. There were some heavy hitters from the sports and entertainment industries on the field. Actors Michael Clarke Duncan and Donald Faison were fan faves. Sports stars Akin Ayodele, Martellus Bennett and Bradie James also suited up for the game. The kids in attendance enjoyed the Frisco Roughriders mascot Deuce get his groove on.

The overall scene stealer that afternoon was the Mavs owner Mark Cuban. Mark hung with the fans taking pictures and signing autographs. He spoke in the crush of the media. Then when I caught him during a free moment, I asked if we could pull him aside for a couple of questions and HE SAID YES! I quickly collected myself and asked him about the charity benefiting from the day's festivities. We talked about the buzz from winning the championship game. When I referred to Mark as the owner of the championship Dallas Mavericks, Mark was like, "Say it again!" It was a very neat highlight and I will remember that moment for years to come. The championship trophy even made an appearance at the game!

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Saturday, July 9, 2011


Several weeks ago, I came across the cartoon Jem on t.v. Jem was one of my favorite cartoons growing up - my sisters and I watched it all the time. I had to crack up watching the episodes now - they sure do seem to focus on some pretty mature themes. Even crazier is that I still remember most of the songs sung by Jem and the Holograms and their rivals The Misfits. I was thrilled that Bryn seemed to like the cartoon - we've been bonding watching the old episodes.

Last night, Bryn grabbed the Guitar Hero "quitar" and sang the Jem theme song for 30 minutes. We decided to get it on video today - enjoy!

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Teen & Jr. Teen United States-World Pageants

I was so honored to have been asked by pageant guru Gaspar Cruz to judge the Teen & Jr. Teen United States-World pageants. We also judged the Miss United States Intercontinental pageant as, meaning that over three days of competition, we had to judge and narrow down the field of over 80 young women to just 3 queens (one in each division).

The pageant was in Houston so I made a roadtrip. It was my first time heading south on the 45 and I was kind of surprised by the size of Huntsville Prison. While stopping for a bite to each, I did some research. It's the prison that executions are conducted in Texas. One of the most notorious hostage situations occurred at that prison. The prisoners built the old electric chair referred to as "Old Sparky." And at the prison museum across the street, there is apparently a display of creative shanks made by inmates. Intriguing.

Back on the road, I arrived in Houston around 3 on Thursday and was immediately whisked away for makeup. The pageant started that evening with the preliminary competitions. We judged all of the contestants in evening gowns, the teen and Miss contestants in bathing suits and the juniors in casual wear. With all of the talent on the stage, we had an incredible task ahead of us.

"Us" - the judges. Let me introduce you to this group of awesome folks I got to spend the weekend with. We had so much fun and have created relationships that will last a lifetime.


This unbelievable young woman is breath-taking. She's got the Angelina Jolie thing down - stunningly beautiful. Well, Miss Hilary is the former Miss Teen USA 2007 and is currently pursuing an acting career in L.A. Nothing but good things are coming to Hil - she's a rockstar!


This former Mrs. World, Mrs. America and Mrs. Arizona is my hero! She is such an accomplished pageant scene and I'm totally looking forward to getting to know her better. I'm hoping to help her judge her local pageant in New York in the fall.


A graduate of FIDM San Francisco, my new friend Hilario now works for Phyto and schooled all of us on our haircare. Thanks to him, I plan on having amazing luxurious locks in the near future. By the way, Hilario is skilled in Tahitian dance and he's also a figure model.


Annie was my first co-judge I met - we got our makeup done together. I realized quickly that she is a stunning beauty queen - she's is the former Miss Montana USA 2010. This wonderful young lady is so excited - she's planning her wedding to a wonderful guy who proposed to her on stage when she was relinquishing her crown at the end of her reign. I watched the proposal on youtube - it is too sweet!


Dewayne is THE premiere wedding coordinator in the Houston area. We had so much fun looking at the amazing events he's planned on his iPad. I was floored. He's incredibly talented. And FUN! After we sat in interviews for 10 hours one day, Hilario, Dewayne and I walked to Grand Luxe for some dinner and bounded some more. Good times - I've got two new brothers and three new sisters in crime!

The first night's festivities included the preliminary competitions in gowns, casual wear for the juniors and swimsuits for the teens and misses. Our scores determined the cuts that would be made to determine who would move on in the competition. It was a fun night, and the judges looked good....

....but we knew the competition was going to be tough. We had our work cut out for us.

The following day, we spent hours upon hours, from 8am until 6pm judging the girls in interview. THe interviews were very important to me - it's an opportunity to see if these girls had a little more than just being pretty. Too my pleasant surprise, most of them did. One girl busted out a Carmen opera song for us - she was amazing. Two other young ladies told us they can sign with the mouthes closed - they demonstarted and were right. One negative that came up during interview - it because clear to us that bullying was on the minds of a lot of contestants. THey might be bullied for not being pretty enough. Or, they might be too pretty and polished, so then she's bullied for being too much of a pageant patty. One young lady even started crying - we went out of our way to make sure she knew she was loved and appreciated. Overall, the ladies were phenomenal and inspired me to step up my game.

Judgment day was on Saturday - we had to judge three separate competitions. We were thrilled to award Rylie Spicker of Florida as the new Jr. Teen United States World.

The Miss United States Intercontinental winner is Jessica Hartman from Colorado. This lovely lady is going to rock it at the international pageant. She was one of my faves from the beginning.

Then we had to decide the Teen United States-World winner. It was frustrating for me because I had my favorites - some of them didn't make the first cut down to 20, then the second cut down to 10, then the third cut down to 5. I really liked a young lady from Florida - Jasmine Avery. I think she presented herself so well on stage and was a contender. The other judges didn't feel as strongly as I did. I also thought two of the girls in the top five were stunningly beautiful - Miss Oklahoma and Miss Missouri. Both were stunning and belonged to be in the top 5, but they seemed to be missing something. Neither thanked the judges after being called for the top 5 - that mattered to some of us. In contrast, the two ladies that won and were first runner-up thanked up profusely. Our teen winne is Devin Gant from North Carolina. This young lady had it going on - she deserved to win the crown.

Congrats again to the winners and to all of the contestants who did a wonderful job. I leave you on a funny - as the top ten was being announced for teen, I quickly noticed that no blondes where being called. In fact, by the time all the contestants had been called, there were only brunettes and a red-head in the top 10. When does that ever happen???

I had fun - I hope they ask me back again to judge!